Not “This is dumb.”
Just curiosity.
That mindset—open, patient, unthreatened—is the opposite of narcissism.
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## So… Which Cup Did You Choose?
In the end, the real question isn’t which cup fills first.
It’s:
* Did you rush or reflect?
* Did you defend or explore?
* Did you assume or investigate?
The cup doesn’t expose you.
Your *reaction* does.
And the good news? Awareness is the first step to balance. Even narcissistic traits, when understood, can be redirected into confidence, leadership, and self-assurance—without tipping into blind ego.
Sometimes the most revealing thing isn’t the answer you pick…
…it’s how certain you feel about it.
