Not joyful laughter. Not pride.
Just… amusement.
My mom waved her hand dismissively, like I had said something ridiculous.
“Why would you do that? You’re a girl. Just marry someone rich.”
My dad nodded in agreement.
“Med school is torture. Why struggle like that? Find a successful man and enjoy life.”
That was it.
No hug.
No “we’re proud of you.”
No celebration.
Just dismissal.
I didn’t argue. I didn’t cry in front of them.
I just nodded and went back to my room.
Something inside me shut down that night.
A month later, I moved out
Med school was brutal.
Not just academically—but emotionally, financially, mentally.
I took out loans. Worked two part-time jobs. Lived on instant noodles and vending machine coffee. Most nights I slept maybe four hours.
I studied biochemical pathways while folding laundry in a laundromat at 1 a.m. I had panic attacks before anatomy exams
During ceremonies and orientation events, I watched my classmates pose for photos with proud parents beneath banners with the school crest.
I usually sat alone in the back row.
When people asked, “Are your parents coming?” something twisted inside my chest.
Meanwhile, my parents paid for my brother’s wedding. They posted constantly about his sales job online.
“So proud of our successful son!”
They never called me.
Never asked how school was going.
Never asked if I was okay.
Eventually, I stopped expecting them to.
I learned how to live without them.
Then last week, out of nowhere, my mom called
Her voice was cheerful. Casual. Like we’d spoken yesterday.
“Hi, sweetie! We heard your White Coat Ceremony is coming up! What’s the date? Your dad and I need to request time off. I’m thinking of wearing that blue dress. Oh! And we should invite your uncle and aunt. This is such a big day!”
My throat tightened.
Suddenly I felt like I was 20 again, standing in my old bedroom after they crushed me.
My dad took the phone next.
“We’re so excited to see our daughter become a doctor.”
That word—our—hit differently this time.
Something inside me snapped.
“I don’t think you should come,” I said quietly.
Silence.
“The tickets are limited,” I continued.
“They’re for people who actually showed up for me.”
Then the explosion.
Crying. Yelling.
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